Monday, May 28, 2012

Half Way!!!!


Wow these last 2 weeks have been a whirlwind!  And now I am 4.5 months pregnant or 18 weeks along! And in twin pregnancy terms I am half way there, since 36 weeks is considered full term for twins.  Holy crap! Can't believe I have made it this far.  

So let me rewind to week 16.  We left that Thursday the 17th for our baby moon vacation to Hilton Head Island.  We stayed at a beautiful resort right on the beach.  The weather didn't cooperate 100%, but we did get 2 days of sunshine where we were able to soak up some sun by the ocean and pool.  The other days we spent walking on the beach, bike riding, mini golfing, eating, and just relaxing.  We did have one funny experience while out on a bike ride the second day of our trip.  (let me just say, the island is very flat and there are no hills, and the bikes you rent are beach cruisers, so it was very fun and easy for me being pregnant)  We biked about 1.5 miles from our hotel to get some lunch and after lunch we decided to bike another 2.5 miles to this amazing gelato place we had discovered the day before.  After eating the gelato we looked up in the distance and noticed some storm clouds in the direction of our resort.  We both decided we better get a move on since we had a 4 mile ride back to the resort to avoid the storm.  Well 5 minutes into our ride back the rain started and we stopped under a tree, hoping that the rain would stop.  Well...not only did the rain not stop, but it started raining harder and harder as we stood there.  So we looked at each other and made a decision....since we were already getting wet we might as well keep riding.  So I pulled my hoodie sweatshirt on and tied the hood tight around my head, secured our phones and camera and off we went.  Justin said with my hoodie tied and the basket on my bike full of our stuff I looked like the kid from E.T., ha ha!!  And that's when the rain from hell started!!  It was like this tropical storm big rain drop rain falling in buckets!!  Mind you the bike path back to our resort is on the side of the highway, so I can only imagine how much entertainment the people driving by us got seeing us biking the the torrential downpour.  And so we peddled and peddled, drenched, laughing so hard, because there was nothing else we could do.  I mean why stop at this point because we were already soaked.  So we laughed and biked 4 miles back to the resort.  It honestly was one of the most entertaining experiences of the trip.

We got back from our trip on Tuesday evening the 22nd.  We were exhausted from the long day of travel, but excited for our doctors appointment the next morning.  So off to bed we went with anticipation that the news we would find out would change our lives again forever!

Wednesday morning I woke up way too early because I was so excited!  We went in to the doctor at 11am.  The ultrasound with Jessica was first, which is what we had been waiting for....to find out the sex of our munchkins.  We went in to the room and began the ultrasound.  She first measured the length of my cervix, which you want to be long, which means you have no signs of early labor. She said mine was long and normal, yay!  She then focused her attention to Baby A.  She measured the head, stomach, and femur bone, to get an approximate size and weight of Baby A.  She said everything looked normal and great and the baby weighs around 8 ounces or 1/2 a pound.  Then she looked to see the gender........and guess what!!!! She was 100% sure that Baby A is a GIRL!!!!  Yes!!!!!  Ok, so we are half way there.  She then did the same exact things with Baby B and determined it weighs 7 ounces, so Baby B has caught up in size.  So the babies total weight together is about 1 pound.  Wow, how fast they have grown!  Ok, ok so I know I am dragging this out, but that's exactly what we felt she was doing to us.  Justin finally said, are you delaying telling us the gender of Baby B to drive us crazy?? She laughed and went straight to it.  She said it was very easy to see and she was also 100% sure that Baby B is a...........GIRL!!!!  Holy moly we are having 2 girls!!!  I was ecstatic!  I never said it but I did have a gut feeling that it was always 2 girls.  I think Justin was happy, but secretively maybe a little bit wanted one of them to be a boy.  But honestly I think he is excited to have to little girls.  I am over the moon that it is 2 girls!  I think it will be so amazing for 2 reasons.  First, because I can't wait to have the mother/daughter relationships with them like I have with my mom.  And second, I was an only child, so I think it will be amazing for them to have a sister that I never had.  Very cool!!!

So let the shopping begin! He he!

The rest of the doctor appointment was with the nurse practitioner, whom we had not met, but soon after meeting we discovered we really liked.  Basically I had accumulated a list of questions over the last several weeks and she answered all of those which included; can I ride a bike (umm yea I know I had already ridden 10 miles 2 days before, whoops!) thank goodness the answer was yes.  Can I take a bath and sleep on my back also got yes answers. (these were things I had read or been told I couldn't do)  She also put me on Prilosec and a different unisom tablet, to try and fix this night nausea problem. (I forgot to mention my nausea finally boiled over on our trip and I threw up twice one evening).  She also said I had gained 4lbs since my last appointment and since the babies are at a healthy weight she said i should stop forcing myself to eat at night time if I didn't feel well or wasn't hungry.  She said let's try this new Prilosec/unisom combo and the non-forced eating in the evening and see if it helps.  Finally, she said it would be good to see my chiropractor to get an adjustment and some acupuncture to try and help with my hip/leg/foot pain and with the nausea.  Then she measured my belly on the outside with a tape measure.  That measurement is supposed to correspond in inches with the number of weeks you are pregnant.  My measurement was 23 inches, but I was only 17.5 weeks pregnant that day.  Which means I am measuring 5.5 weeks bigger.  She said twins measure 4-6 weeks ahead, so I am completely in the normal range.  Ok, yay!  Doctor appointment done, everything normal, and I have 2 baby girls growing in there!  I could not be happier!

We told my parents by video chat and phone on Wednesday evening and both sides seemed very excited!  We had to wait till Saturday afternoon when Justin's mom and sisters got back from vacation to tell his family.  It was super fun and I had my friend Erin make 2 little cakes with Baby A and Baby B frosted on them and then she put pink colored cake on the inside of each of them.  We let Justin's mom cut the first one and she was super excited when she saw the pink.  Her excitement was priceless!  We let Justin's dad cut the second cake and I wasn't sure what the reaction would be because I knew they really would like to have a boy and a girl.  But his reaction was super excited and happy which seemed to ease the pressure on me and us of it not being a boy.  So yay, all of our families are super excited that we are having 2 girls and we couldn't be happier about that!

We spent this past Saturday and Sunday telling more of our friends and family the genders, and everyones reactions were so cool to see!  People are just so happy for us, and it makes me feel so good inside!  So thanks everyone!  

One last thing....how am I feeling physically?  Well...week 16 was ruff and the nausea came back in full force nightly and like I said even made me get sick one night on our trip.  Week 17 seemed to calm down with the nausea and I started the Prilosec/Unisom regimin this past Wednesday and it seems to be helping.  I was actually able to eat a normal dinner Thursday-Sunday.  In fact my appetite seems to almost be growing this weekend, which I am hoping means the fun eating stage is here and the nausea stage is gone??  We shall wait and see.  My hip, calf and heel/foot pain continues to be a problem, but I got this incredible huge U-shaped pillow for sleeping and that seems to be helping me not be up as much as night with the pain, so that's good.  The new symptom I have acquired in the last several days is swelling.  I sure didn't expect it to come on this early, but I am thinking because the weather is so hot and humid combined with me being further ahead in size because it is twins made it appear.  So yes, I have KANKLES!!!  I no longer can see my inner ankle bone, which is very strange and kinda gross looking.  My feet swell too at the end of the day which makes shoes hard to get on, beyond flip flops.  And I can no longer wear my wedding ring!!!  This makes me really sad, but it was getting to the point where it was so tight it was freaking me out and making me think that I might have to have someone cut it off.  I think I could still wear it indoors, but the heat outside makes me swell quite quickly, so I would rather be safe than sorry.  So I am headed to the costume jewelry store this week to find a larger cheapy ring to wear.  

So i think that is about it and I have caught up with everything.  I have lots of pictures to share below.  Starting with week 17 belly picture, ultrasound photos, the gender cakes, and week 18 belly picture.  Enjoy!  

17 week belly photo taken on the beach during the tropical storm in Hilton Head

Our artistic sand caption

Trying to look trendy with my baby bump on the beach

Face profile shot of Baby Girl A
Baby Girl A feet

This shows you that Baby A is a Girl!!!

Scary scream face with an open mouth of Baby A

Baby Girl B foot

Face shot of Baby Girl B

Baby B is a GIRL!!

Full body profile of Baby girl B

What color is it inside??

Could be blue, could be pink??

Thanks Erin for the cute pink cakes!

Ok, here is another self-belly portrait.  I tried it this time with my iPhone, sorry I cut my face off. The baby girls are the size of bell peppers this week and growing quickly!

How far along?  18 weeks 1 day as of today, Monday May 28th
Total weight gain/loss:  I gained 4lbs as of my last appointment, but not sure of my total gain/loss
Maternity clothes?  Absolutely!  
Stretch marks?  Nope
Sleep:  Sometimes good, sometimes bad, better with my giant U-Shaped pillow that looks like i am in a boat!  Ha ha! 
Best moment this week:  Finding out we are having girls and seeing the reaction from our families when we told them, priceless! 
Have you told family and friends:  Yes, everyone knows everything we know at this point.  The only thing we won't be revealing until the births is the names (which we have not chosen yet), so don't ask, guess, or question because we aren't telling!  We have to keep something between us!
Miss Anything?  My inner ankle bones that disappeared a couple days ago!
Movement:  I feel baby girl A moving/rolling around here and there, but I have not felt baby girl B yet.
Food cravings?  Nothing crazy yet.
Anything making you queasy or sick:  Anything acidic like fruit or fruit juice 
Have you started to show yet:  Yes, and people have started touching my belly. I think it is kinda cool.  No strangers have approached me yet.
Gender prediction:   We don't need a prediction!  We know we have 2 princesses!!
Labor Signs:  Please no!
Belly Button in or out?   In, but I have a purple ring around it that looks like a bruise!  Very strange!
Wedding rings on or off?  Off, and I'm very sad about it.   
Happy or Moody most of the time:  Happy, but I've cried at a couple TV shows this week.
Weekly Wisdom:  Wow, after this long blog, my brain is fried!  I have no wisdom this week.
Looking forward to:  Registering for stuff this week with my girlfriends!  Can't wait!

Jenny & Justin +5 girls!  2 human 3 furry He he he!!!











Monday, May 14, 2012

I am 4 months pregnant.....

can you believe it???   I for one cannot believe I am already this far along!  If this makes sense I feel like the time has gone by really slow and really fast.  The days seem slow when I am not feeling well, but the overall time seems to have flown by.  I feel like yesterday we were getting that first blood test result back and finding out it was multiples.  And by the way, I'm still not sure that the whole twins thing has really and truly settled into my mind yet and become a reality.  Yes, I see them on the screen every 2 weeks, but for some reason I just don't feel like it will seem real until they are here.

Justin and I had an extremely busy week this past week.  We traveled to Kansas City for a work thing for him Tuesday thru Thursday.  We got to make a stop to visit and have dinner with my Dad and step-mom Sheila which was really nice.  I also got to meet up with 2 very old friends for dinner, whom I have known since I was born!  Crazy, huh!?  Christy and Nicole are a couple years older than me and were our next door neighbors growing up in Kansas City.  They knew my mom when she was pregnant with me and saw me come home from the hospital, so I have known them for over 33 years!  I haven't seen them in probably over 10 years and we just started talking like no time had passed at all.  It was AWESOME to see them.

Then this past weekend my amazing husband Justin graduated from college!  I am so proud of him for sticking with it and getting his degree.  And it couldn't have been better timing to get it completed before the babies arrive.  We have spent the last 6 years taking classes (and I say "we" because there might have been a little help on my part) taking 1-2 classes a year towards his degree, because between the cost and work and life that was all we could manage.  But all this effort has paid off and he now has the diploma in hand, so congrats baby!!  My mom and step-dad Bruce came in town for the ceremony and celebration and stayed with us for the weekend which was fun.  We met up with all of Justin's family for the ceremony on Saturday and had a nice brunch after.  I think Justin and I are just glad this whole school thing is over!!!  It has been an extra added stress on our lives that is now GONE!!  Yay!  No more writing papers on Sunday nights!

And I just have to say this was a very cool Mother's Day on Sunday.  I know the babies aren't here yet, but I got a lot of nice messages from people wishing me a Happy Mommy to be Day!  That made me feel so good, so thanks everyone!

How am I feeling?  Well....  I officially have been in my second trimester for a couple weeks now, and so far it isn't what everyone told me it was going to be.  They said I would just wake up one day and feel awesome and have lots more energy.......Ummmmm hasn't happened!  I am still very tired and I am sleeping less now because for some reason I wake up sometime between 5-7am wide awake and I am up for the day.  What the hell?  And it is still very hard to get to sleep and I toss and turn most of the night because my hips, legs and feet ache most of the night.  The nausea is getting better weekly which I am the most grateful for!  It still hits me a couple times a week at night, so I am hoping it will be gone soon??  I have learned certain foods make my stomach hurt and seem to trigger the evening nausea, but the one that does it the most is cheese or pizza with cheese.  I miss my favorite foods cheese and pizza so much, so every once in a while I try to eat some just to see if it won't make my stomach upset and I have gotten the same result every time, so I guess I'll just quit trying and give up cheese and pizza for now.  But as soon as these babies are born there better be a huge pizza and an awesome cheese platter waiting for me!  Another thing everyone told me was that my appetite would come back and I would be starving all the time.  Ummmm, that hasn't happened either.  Food, all and all, still sounds pretty gross and I don't seem to be any hungrier than normal.  Popsicles still make me happy along with mixed berry sorbet gelato from whole foods!!  If you haven't tried it you are missing out!  It has been my nightly treat a couple nights the last week and puts a huge smile on my face.

I am still trying to follow doctors orders and eat like crap to gain weight, but I realized my idea of eating like crap isn't exactly what other peoples idea of eating like crap is.  So let's just say I am eating healthy crappy food.  Sugary cereal and french fries is about the worst it gets for me, but hey I am trying!!

Well, we are leaving Thursday morning this week for our baby moon trip to Hilton Head, South Carolina and will be back the following Tuesday.  Then Wednesday the 23rd is our next doctor/ultrasound appt which is where we are hoping to find out the sex of the babies.  If we do, we are going to tell immediate family first and then everyone else.  So I might not put it on here till the weekend after the 23rd, sorry!  Many people have emailed/texted/called me and told me what they think the babies are going to be and I have been keeping track.  The majority of people think it is going to be a boy and a girl.  I am not sure if they think that because they think that would be ideal, or if they really think that is what they are.  Well.......we shall see!  I am so freaking excited to find out!!  I want to go shopping so bad it is killing me!

Here is my 16 week/4 month belly photo.  I got told by someone that I didn't look "that big" yet.  Ummmm, not sure how to take that.  So I look big but not that big?  Ummm, thanks?  People say the funniest things to you when you are pregnant!
Babies are the size of avocados

My husband the graduate!  Yay!

How far along?   16 weeks or 4 months as of Sunday May 13th
Total weight gain/loss:  4 pounds lost as of my last appointment
Maternity clothes?  Yes, except for dresses and my long shirts that still fit
Stretch marks?  No!  I now have 4 kinds of belly oils and lotions that I put on twice daily to prevent those nasty things!
Sleep:   Ahh, sleep!  Oh how I miss you!
Best moment this week:   Being included in the Mother's Day holiday, very cool!  Oh and my husband graduating, he he!
Miss Anything?   Read above: pizza and cheese
Movement:   I think I have felt a flutter or something here and there, but I am not sure if it is my organs or gas or the babies
Food cravings?  Nothing demanding or outrageous yet
Anything making you queasy or sick:   Food commercials
Have you started to show yet:  Yes, I think I am now getting to the point where strangers think I am pregnant and not just fat
Gender prediction:  I'm going with the majority and saying boy/girl
Labor Signs:   No
Belly Button in or out?   In
Wedding rings on or off?  On
Happy or Moody most of the time:  Very happy most of this week, except for late at night 
Weekly Wisdom:   No 2 people are the same, therefore no 2 peoples pregnancies are going to be the same, so I just need to stop trying to compare myself to others and just ride this pregnancy ride and whatever may come will come
Looking forward to:   Laying on the beach


Jenny & Justin +2 (+3 furry)

Monday, May 7, 2012

15 Weeks

This last week was the first week in several weeks that I felt good for several days in a row!  I did have 2 days where I just felt like crap and stayed in bed all day, but I am trying to focus on the positive, so Yay! for the good days with no nausea!  I am hoping this means I am nearing the end of it all on and on to the awesome part of the second trimester that everyone has been telling me about.

I went to my 2 week appointment on Thursday last week.  Justin couldn't go because he was traveling for the day.  It was pretty routine.  The crabby ultrasound lady, Jessica, was actually not really crabby at all today and was very nice and chatty with me!  Not sure if we are breaking her down or if she was being more friendly because Justin wasn't in the room or what, but hey I'll take  it!  She measured heartbeats and said they look normal.  I then asked about seeing the gender at this point.  She said at 14.5 weeks along her accuracy is only about 80%, and that is assuming the babies are in the right position.  She asked if I wanted her to check and I said no, not without Justin here.  I asked what her accuracy would be at our next appointment and she said 95% (because she never says she is 100%, but she has never been wrong)!  So we will wait until our next appointment which will be on May 23rd, which is almost 3 weeks away from this appointment because Justin and I are headed on our baby moon the week that we should be going in.

I also saw the doctor and it was very quick and he just asked me some routine questions measured my belly and listened to the babies heartbeats with the fetal doppler thing.  He also suggested some new medicine for my nausea, which I tried for a couple days and it didn't seem to help, so I am still taking Zofran.  Oh and one last thing....he said I have lost 2 pounds in the last 2 weeks and 2 pounds the 2 weeks before according to transferred records, so I am going in the opposite direction.  I told him food just sucks right now!  I eat during the day, but food just doesn't taste the same and then at night time it is almost impossible to force anything down, but I try really hard to eat something.  So his strict orders were to, "Eat like Crap!"  He said eat what ever sounds good but make it high calorie, high carb because if I am not eating a lot, at least what I am eating will have lots of calories.  He said eat french fries, dessert, what ever I can eat, but make it crappy.  Ummmm, those are the best doctors orders I have EVER gotten!  So fast food, and frozen yogurt, and extra butter, and french fries here I come!  This baby moon vacation next week is going to be even better!

Yep, we are headed on a get away to Hilton Head for about 5 days.  I am so excited to lay on the beach and get a tan!  I know people, sunscreen is key, but I gotta get my belly a little color so I am not so pasty.  Justin is really excited too, to get away from his hectic work for a couple days and just relax.  And then when we return, we find out the next day what the sexes of our babies are!!  What an awesome thing to come home to.

Here are the ultrasound pictures and belly picture for the week. Oh and a picture of how the nursery is coming along so far!  And please excuse the weird angle of the belly photo.  Justin and I had a hectic Sunday yesterday and forgot to take my picture, so I attempted to take it myself this morning with the automatic timer on the camera.  It'll have to do.

This is a view of the bellies of both babies

Frog legs of baby A.  Looks like someone might be tall like Daddy!

Alien face of Baby B, we couldn't get A to look the right way

Another shot of the alien face

Here is my awkward belly photo, but you get the idea.  I feel like it really is starting to pop out.  In case you can't read, according to my books the babies are the size of apples this week.


Here is the nursery so far.  I wish I would have taken a before picture, but the walls were a khaki peach color before.  Also we installed the new ceiling fan, white wood blinds, painted the grey color, had crown moulding installed and bought this new black and white Chevron rug that I LOVE!!!

Ok, I think that is all for now.  Justin and I are headed on a little road trip to Kansas City tomorrow (tuesday) thru Thursday.  And then next week we head to Hilton Head, so I am hoping these trips will keep us distracted until our next appt.

Jenny & Justin +2 (+3 furry)